Sometimes the happiest moments in life can turn into the saddest ones because of some egoistic attitudes we adopt and stick to just to please ourselves. It is so easy to ride our prides and to see things only from one perspective our own!
It is time to be humble and to think of others and how they feel because of our attitude and to help them and support them even if they are being difficult...it is time for tolerance...although not the easiest thing in the world to do with a pride of rock but it is the most important...it is time to accept differences and to stop judging others as good and bad and to criticize their actions and generalize about how they might have or have not become.
Have some patience...try to understand...and this only comes through open communication and really letting go of that damned ego and pride...sometimes it helps to be selfless and to think of others beyond your likes and dislikes! Love is about trying to make someone you love happy even when sometimes what you do may make you unhappyyyy!!!!